The stages of a person’s life viewed in the background of the canvas of the Universe, is something we may discover after the journey we travel for years. The simplest dimension of thinking an example is happenings in life on a timeline we remember; like 1st birthday of a child (remembered by parents), some events during school years, passing of +2 or pre degree, first day in a college, incidences in colleges, pass out from a college, marriage day, jobs, anniversaries, disasters, pandemic…
We usually think about our ‘experiences’ in a linear manner – attributing to the timeline based on many aspects as mentioned above; like experience – being in a family ( as a child, teenage, youth, with parents) school, college, through marriage, office, jobs we do…
It sometimes gives a fascination to realize these “stages” (as a child, with parents, teenage, youth, as parents) can be seen as collection of quantum experiences, that have made us what we are.
The series of momentary experiences we go through during a period of time is different, as we experience them at that time, and when we look back at these after years. In a simpler notion- what we experienced at ‘that’ time has a different feeling when revisited as our age advances. We have often a significant shaping of our personality as we grow.
After years we can find a pattern of ‘Set’ of experiences, rather than momentary experiences emerge. Looking back, we can see that momentary experiences consolidate to ‘quanta’ and any person can come with ‘quantum’ experiences which has moved a person forward. At the time of exposure to experience we would not have realized its relevance(or irrelevance), until we move forward in time, turn back and see them. ‘Moments add on to our age, not necessarily experience when we go through in real time.’
Assume a person in a lifebuoy in a pond or a swimming pool. If we create ripples in the pool, waves are formed; the waves move the person, up and down and forward (or backward) or in any swaying position. The “person” doesn’t swim to move – the wave moves him, but where he moves to and how swiftly, depends on the person’s position (or the lifebuoy), its speed (of up and down or straight) and position. The particles in wave function of physics has a similar pattern, ultimately the predictability of where the person is difficult with incessant wave motions swaying and crisscrossing and moving that. All are static, but moved by the ‘waves’.
A clarification on experience: (eg: in life or in work). Assume a person claiming to have, 30 years of experience in ‘X’ role. But simply existing as in that role of ‘X’ for 30 years doesn’t actually imply “experience”. The thoughts, actions, reflections and appropriate behaviour of continued modification is actually experience. These continued modifications usually can take the turns of quanta.