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System blame Vs Person blame

STRANDOMS: the stray and random thoughts

Jul 09 ,2025

System blame Vs Person blame

Dr.S.RAMKUMAR

In 1985, an article in FAO’s Ceres magazine by Prof. Niels Röling of Wageningen University introduced the intriguing concept of “System blame” versus “Person blame” within agricultural extension. This idea captivated me and profoundly influenced my academic pursuits. The distinction between whether a problem’s root cause lies within a system’s design or with the individuals operating it became a central theme in my studies, particularly during Ph.D. and postdoctoral work at the University of Reading from 1991 to 1995, where I focused on Information Systems.

Today, discussions frequently revolve around “System failures,” implying that the fault lies with the established frameworks created and managed by people. This raises critical questions: Are problems, or the lack of timely and appropriate solutions, solely a consequence of inherent defects within the systems we inhabit? And can any administrative system truly exist without the integral involvement of individuals?

The Importance of a Balanced Approach

While both person blame and system blame offer valid perspectives, a comprehensive understanding of problems often requires considering both. Most complex issues are not solely the fault of an individual or solely the result of a flawed system. Instead, they arise from an interaction between individual actions and the surrounding context.

For instance, a medical error might involve a doctor’s fatigue (individual factor) and an understaffed hospital that leads to overwork (systemic factor). Addressing only one aspect might lead to temporary fixes but won’t prevent similar incidents in the future.

Ultimately, shifting from a purely person-blame mindset to one that incorporates system blame encourages a more constructive, learning-oriented approach to problem-solving, fostering environments where continuous improvement is possible.

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Find the “YES” minds: Classroom to Conferences!

STRANDOMS: the stray and random thoughts

Jul 02 ,2025

Find the “YES” minds: Classroom to Conferences!

Dr.S.RAMKUMAR

(An experience of the recent International Conference by IVEF on Veterinary Extension at Chennai wherein the session on short presentations by the undergraduate students had an insightful impact. Reflections on my thoughts on the pedagogic opportunity which was exciting for me as the Chairman of the session)

Finding the “YES” mind – Young, Energetic, and Stimulating – is a crucial endeavour, particularly in academic and professional settings. The recent International Conference on Veterinary Extension by IVEF in Chennai, India held from June 26 to 28, 2025, provided a significant opportunity to engage with these vibrant perspectives. Short presentations by graduate students of Veterinary Sciences and Animal Husbandry allowed these emerging professionals to confidently, clearly, and carefully share their ideas with a wider, diverse audience. This initiative highlights the immense value in fostering an environment where fresh viewpoints can flourish and contribute to broader discussions.

The “YES” mind represents an open and invigorating perspective that can significantly boost diverse thinking across all age groups and experience levels. Creating a platform for such minds, like the one offered at the Chennai conference, provides a comfortable and supportive space for budding graduates. It encourages them to step out of their comfort zones and boldly articulate their thoughts on chosen topics. This hand-holding approach is essential for nurturing confidence and empowering the next generation of professionals to actively participate and present their unique insights without hesitation.

Every individual possesses a “YES” mind, and true education lies in igniting these minds. The key to successful presentations and intellectual growth is providing an environment that champions freedom of expression. While mentorship can guide young presenters in structuring and delivering their ideas effectively, the ultimate credit for the presentation belongs solely to them. This autonomy fosters a sense of ownership and encourages deeper engagement with their subject matter, leading to more authentic and impactful contributions.

Facilitating a platform for younger minds not only benefits the presenters but also illuminates the audience, including seasoned experts, stalwarts, scientists, and faculty. It allows them to rediscover the “unseen YES” that might have become dormant due to years of accumulated experience and knowledge. These fresh perspectives radiate new insights, offering valuable opportunities for collaborative development with younger minds. It’s a reminder that innovation often springs from looking at familiar challenges through a new lens.

It’s crucial to resist the temptation to dismiss the ideas, processes, and knowledge shared by young minds with a “master-of-all-knowledge” mind-set. Instead, view these short presentations as stories depicted from their unique understanding – a vital first step in their professional journey. It’s important to compliment them on their presentation style and content, and then offer constructive criticism on areas for improvement. Focusing on positive points for growth will not only make them feel valued and confident but also encourage them to become more analytical and adaptable in their future endeavours. If some ideas are incorrect, suggest modifications gently, ensuring they don’t feel belittled.

The art of mentoring lies in making young minds feel comfortable enough to open up, by truly understanding their perspectives and inquiring into their reasoning.

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Hill-Side Bonds

STRANDOMS: the stray and random thoughts

Jun 19 ,2025

Hill-Side Bonds:
the friendship tales

S.RAMKUMAR

When I began my PhD in 1991 at the University of Reading, UK, I joined the Agricultural Extension and Rural Development Department (AERDD). It was housed in an old building at the Earley Gate, but its unassuming exterior belied its international acclaim. AERDD was renowned as one of the best in its field, boasting an exceptional faculty and a vibrant community of students pursuing various postgraduate courses, from MA in Rural Social Development and MSc in Agricultural Extension to Agricultural Education and postgraduate diplomas, alongside fellow PhD scholars like myself.

The international student body within the department was truly remarkable. It was a diverse group from different countries, offering immense opportunities for mutual learning and discovery. Among us were highly accomplished officers from the Indian Administrative Service (IAS), Indian Forest Service (IFS), and Indian Economic Service (IES), all deputed for specialized postgraduate studies, typically focusing on development studies or extension science. Many of these individuals became wonderful friends, but one particular IAS officer, Dr. I. Devendran, became more like a brother.

Mr. Devendran stayed at Hill Side, quite close to my own accommodation. He had initially come with his family, but as his demanding coursework progressed, he remained alone to complete his studies. We shared many memorable times, especially on weekends. Our routine often involved a trip to the town centre, followed by an impromptu decision at Reading railway station: “Where shall we go this weekend?” We’d travel to places like Bath, Edinburgh, Brighton, Stratford, Warwick… in addition to frequent weekends in London. Our journeys together always filled with engaging conversation. Dr. Devendran was incredibly knowledgeable, and a wonderful singer too, often serenading our walks. Our discussions ranged from intellectual debates to light-hearted chatter about cookery and friends, making our time together lively and enriching.

Occasionally, I’d visit his Hill Side home, where he’d whip up a delicious sambar, following his wife’s precise instructions. The other international inmates in his house, myself included, always savored this taste of home. I distinctly remember our trips to the town center to buy a week’s worth of groceries. The walk back along Cross Road to Hill Side, laden with heavy bags, was always an effort, but Dr. Devendran would insist, “Let us walk! Walking is a pleasure here because it’s cold.” He’d lighten the load with his beautiful songs, making the journey enjoyable. Once we reached home, a hot cup of tea awaited us, instantly relaxing us and setting the stage for more wonderful discussions ahead.

We are still in touch with the spirit of 1991!

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LASTING LOVE

STRANDOMS: the stray and random thoughts

MAY 5 ,2025

S.RAMKUMAR

LASTING LOVE

True Love is heart’s find of the beautiful virtues of another person.

While physical beauty might initially draw the eye, it is the enduring qualities of affection, sacrifice, and unwavering care that truly bind souls together.

These deeper virtues weave the fine fabric of a real and lasting love, with varying shades!

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Teachers: students make them!

STRANDOMS: the stray and random thoughts

August 7, 2017

Prof. S. Ramkumar

Education, Life 

Teachers: students make them!

Man-making or Nation-building , the teacher is the instrumental foundation and means. This is an attempt to crystallize the thoughts on becoming a good teacher, may it be in schools, Colleges, Institutes or Universities.
  1. Preserving the curiosity

Primary to PhD , the pristine element of a teacher is the same “creating and leading a learning environment”. However I feel the responsibility is more so with school teachers, especially primary and secondary schools. In fact after the family to which a child is born (the members of which are the first teachers of their life), the inquisitiveness of the child is to be kept alive and promoted by the primary teachers, the foundation builders. I remember Mother Prosperous who was more than a teacher to me when I was in my 2nd standard, whom I met after so many years after she became the Generalite, who recognized me as the child who persistently asked questions. I remember her as a patient listener lovingly trying to explain to a 7 year old on the myriads of life, quite incomprehensible at that age.

  1. Nothing less than a role model

“The classrooms shape the destiny of a country”- brings out the role of teacher inside a classroom. Teachers are creating the future society, a responsible a and continuous task. This demand that there is nothing less than a role model expected from a teacher. This attributes great responsibility and sense of satisfaction for a teacher. Students learn what you do, not necessarily what you teach or say (except a subject taught). It’s not what is being taught that the children learn; its you they learn!

  1. Connecting to every student

Every learner, ( irrespective of the varying capacities we attribute to them) should feel that (s)he is being cared by the teacher. Classrooms should not be a generic totality of “one teacher” to “collection of students”(we do not have a collectivity name of a collection of learners like the pack of hounds or murder of crows, which can remind a teacher that each learner is unique with potentials of thinking and reasoning )); rather it has to emulate the feeling of “one teacher” to “each student”. This connectedness to each student is vital to create interest and involvement of students. The method of linking to each student involves innovations on creativity of connectedness on the part of teacher. Think a situation that every student feels that the teacher is his or hers!

4.Teaching doesn’t happen in vacuum

Every student or learner (an infant child to an old person; poor or rich; literate or illiterate) have a knowledge set of his own. Teaching is a process of sharing between two sets of knowledge, which is essentially communication. This should start by understanding and respecting this knowledge.

  1. Teaching to prepare for life: the litmus test : Teacher need to realize his/her role in a wider context to position himself or herself. Teaching cannot be measured in terms of the books or compositions corrected, examination papers set or answer books evaluated or the number of hours or periods spend in a class or laboratory (though all these are needed!). It is the qualitative change that has been brought out among the students in the “learning for life” that decides the result of teaching. The disciplines or subjects we try to transfer knowledge about are one of the tools effecting this change. Any subject for that matter is important, a tool that should be used in a wider understanding of purpose of education by a teacher. It has a lot to do with fitting into the setting, culture or heritage. “ Education is the perfecting of life- the enrichment of the individual by the heritage of the race. Let this vital process of transmission and absorption be interrupted for half a century, and civilization would end, our grandchildren would be more primitive than savages” Will Durant: 2014 “Fallen Leaves: last words on Life, Love War and God”. Swami Vivekananda’s advice as “ Education is the manifestation of perfection already in man”, is relevant and simple in making realize the role of a teacher to bring out the best in a child, which is already there. Any subject we teach is an opportunity for this.
  2. Being a Pansophist : Comenius, the famous educationist of the 17 century (sometimes named as Father of Modern education) had his concept of philosophy of “pansophism” which related to education for everyday life and called for a systematic relationship to be developed for all knowledge ( as against the conventional encyclopedic teaching”). He advocated teaching in the common or vernacular language of students rather than in Latin (in his place at that time!), and the establishment of a universal system of education with opportunities that included women and people of all nations. Interestingly India has preached one form of this as Vasudhaiyva Kudumbakom ( the vedic concept of world is a family). Pansophism would make a learner capable of wisdom in any subject and be “able to see any subject in relation to others”. (Robert. R. Rusk: The doctrines of the great educators: 1954). Teachers need to be attempt to be pansophists, at least to the extent that is possible.
  3. Teacher in the digital environment :As teaching undergoes changes, one of the new and powerful entrants to the field is the “Digital environment”. Actual learning happens now, as in earlier times in family, school and society. But one of the influential factor in all these is the digital teacher. The teachers need to rationalize the application of these for children giving them the opportunity to experience both the virtual and real. Teachers cannot take this as a matter of convenience or inconvenience. It’s a matter of opportunity , the ultimate aim is making the children fit for a successful life within a technology-led day of the present. The world has been so, applying the teachings of the day – logic, religion, science or – from Plato to Dr Abdul Kalam!

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PLANTING PERSONALITIES IN THE PLANET

STRANDOMS: the stray and random thoughts

September 3, 2017

Prof. S. Ramkumar

Life 

PLANTING PERSONALITIES IN THE PLANET

September 5th is the Teachers Day. A look into the role of teachers. Dedicated to those great minds that create generations of goodwill.
“If we teach today’s students as we taught yesterday’s, we rob them of tomorrow.” (John Dewey, American philosopher and psychologist)

Everything teaches us: situations, people, flora, fauna… what doesn’t? But the contribution of “teachers” in molding us to be what we are, reverberates by the imminent touches of teachers in our daily lives. Good teachers live through, and with the learners, in maybe small but beautiful ways of how they deal and dwell on this planet.

Good teachers have a part of him/her living as a legend with us (the only systematic influence other than the inheritance of genes from parents!). My class mate in school, recently chatted from Panama; the first thing he typed was about Ramachandran Sir who taught us geography and about Panama Canal. My friend was so thrilled (and we all were ) that his efforts live: it’s not the subject, but how he delivered. Compared to the present day opportunities of teachers, we are quite sure that he had not been to Panama at that time!

You become a teacher when you realize that students respect you , not fear you. The respect is the realm of a new love- of freely speaking with a teacher- which evolves to the ideal relationship of a teacher growing to mentor.

“I never teach my pupils. I only attempt to provide the conditions in which they can learn.” (Einstein)

The tools of a teacher are appreciation, compliments, respect, love, care , concern and participation in guidance though the life of the learner. These tools have to be sensibly applied to raise the confidence and capacities of students, so as to make themselves happy in the path of life.

We often remember teachers, and hold them to heart for taking us through tough situations like when students think:

“Marks are less”

Complexity of thoughts like “ I am not as good as him/her”

“What shall I do in life?”

“I am Poor”

“I am not good at this”

“ I have problems at home, do I have a future?”

It’s not History, Chemistry, Computer Science, English, Medicine, Business or Engineering (ie. Subjects) that is vital for us as a teacher but how (s)he creates confidence in the learner to deal with life with the above tools that were mentioned earlier. It’s challenging. In teaching, the subject is only a medium – to create a mind to apply that- is the task of the teacher.

Teach them to walk alone or together in life.

“Do not confine your children to your own learning, for they were born in another time.”

(Chinese Proverb)

This is evident in the present day, when value education is repositioned with lesser priority in Schools and on the other end we need to build “committed citizens” (irrespective of knowledge brains) for building a Nation at a later stage. As Dr. Abdul Kalam envisions in “ A Manifesto for change”, “ we need to have a creative classroom, creative syllabus and creative teachers. The first two are comparatively easy, but the challenge is how to find creative teachers. Finding such teachers is the hardest task.

I remember many teachers (and students too!) for the “lessons of life” they taught me rather than the subjects dealt with. The students are amazing resource in teaching us many things. They remind us of the World that is transitional, lead us to the challenge of debating with ourselves on “right” and “wrong”, change our mindset on perceiving things- all for the better.

Back to teachers, the list for me starts with Late Sister Prosperous, who with her patience probably would have instilled a little something called ‘curiosity’. The list is never ending and can never be complete. But just few examples on the lessons learnt and subjects taught:

Amazing were the classes of Shri. Panikkar Sir in science, but what I learnt is the way of orderliness on his entry into the class, keeping books on one side of the table perfectly in an order, taking time to arrange himself, and his smile.

Prof. W. H. Mackaden, the passionate and Mrs. Radha Padmanaban, the elegant (writer of children’s stories) in Malabar Christian college who taught English, were magnets to whom we were hooked for long, during the “science dominated” courses. Inborn raconteurs. The passion for understanding writings and literature is the lesson learnt for life!

In Veterinary College it’s a long list, worth writing another Strandom!

In University of Reading, UK, again it’s a long list. Remember Prof. Maurice my mentor (a serious but genuine teacher) who taught travelling is learning and Prof Chris, the dynamism of decision making without delay. One of the softest feeling is for Late Gwynn Jones from Wales a real Country man reminding me of a straight innocent grandfather figure from a rural area of India. Was a pleasure to be with him.

Other than Judges in a Judiciary system, probably teachers are the only people who have the attribute of being neutral – to a group of students of a heterogeneous class at any time. Class, colour, community, creed, gender – nothing matters to a teacher who sees only a learner in every one. All are equal, capable (maybe in different aspects) and beautiful.

The onus of identifying, nurturing and creating generation of “responsible humans” largely lies with teacher, whether it’s in the first standard or during his PhD.

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The unsung heroines : A tribute to Grandmas

STRANDOMS: the stray and random thoughts

January 6, 2019

Prof. S. Ramkumar

Education

The unsung heroines : A tribute to Grandmas

Grandparents are irreplaceable sources of love in our life. The merry-life of grandchildren are enriched in the presence of grandparents. They are often the soul mates to whom children share all secrets and apprehensions, including how strict and tough their parents are, how silly sometimes friends are and how cruel teachers are in asking them to do homework and learn! Children have favourites among the grandparents. In an age of technology dominated by short settlements in different regions of the world for work, and nucleated families, the roles of Grandparents are changing. This is an attempt to recollect few incidences with my grandma, and I write it as a tribute to all grandparents.

“Granny expresses her approval of this attitude (of Swami) and then begged leave to start the story of Harischandra, who, just to be true to his word , lost his throne, wife, and child, and got them all back in the end. She was half-way through it when Swaminathan’s rhythmic snoring punctuated her narration, and she lay down to sleep.”

(Swami and Friends: R. K. Narayanan)

Grandma narrated stories which were short, expressive and emotional, and it’s a great feel of hearing the stories lying beside. The story-telling by my grandmother often took me to a world of imagination from where it took time to get back to the real world. I remember how she told on Krishna going to Hastinapaura to appeal for peace with Duryodhana on behalf of Pandavas, after their 12 years of exile in the Forest and a 13 nth year of incognito. He was to ask the Kingdom for Pandavas! Duryodhana wanted to show his pride, power and ego and wanted to disparage Krishna, in spite of his father and other Gurus advising him not to do so. Duryodhana instructed his court members to sit in their chairs and not stand up as respect when Krishna arrives in the Court. They all sat firm to their chairs. The reaching of Krishna was indicated through the Panchaganyam (the conch) which was blown on his way, in the chariot. The kings and ministers and Duryodhana’s brothers started shivering since their chairs shuddered on the sound of the Panchajanyam, and they started to fall from their seats! What a picture she has drawn on a nine year old and stimulated the art of imagination. The dramatic, exaggerated version had no physical gestures – all were through the gentle voice changes which brought a movie in front of me.

Parents are our ideals.. However children feel they are strict with many schedules (of course aimed at the goodness of children!). At an young age the only person who could overrule my father’s decisions on my freedom was my Grandma. She tried her veto power mainly in my interest for playing (often at the cost of the studies!) and lying idle hearing her stories. The compliments of grandma on our achievements (and non-achieving) are so heart warming.

Remember once my maths teacher, Joseph sir (an old wise man) who came home occasionally to teach me maths , taught multiplication table. One day he asked to recollect the tables and tell him which he taught several times. I could easily say the multiplication tables of one to 12. Tables from 12 to16 required some more efforts from me which I didn’t put in, especially my Grandma being around. He scolded and I started to cry loudly (if it was my parents they wouldn’t mind though). Grandma came as an Angel from inside and told the teacher “your teaching is enough”! Joseph sir couldn’t convince her in any way. My father at that time a Professor of Education came to know of it in the evening when he returned from the College. He talked to his mother and requested her not to intervene in teaching. However she refused to hear him saying “any teaching which makes the child cry” is not real teaching! I was so happy when she reminded my father on how he has studied without getting any scolding or slaps. He had answers but was difficult to explain in front of me!

When I was eight I was to write the Sainik School exam. Grandma told my father that it’s not a good idea since I will be moved away from family to a hostel at a young age. Father had his reasons which were fair and asked me to write that. Though he was serious on me attempting it, grandma had a personal session with me on why that life would be difficult. Anything for her! I made sure I didn’t get through the test! The attitude of taking certain things lightly in life might have been planted in me by her.

Grandma used to explain about the relatives, relations and was open in her versions of who are good and who are not so. They were straight talks- simple and loving – and offered unfiltered joy. I used to enjoy helping her crush the betel leaves (vettila) and areca nuts (paakku) in the small stone, kept for that, which was her most relaxing time.

A grandma’s presence in a home moulds the children, without her/his knowing and, they are often least credited to this personality formation. Grandmas are always a joy – whether we are sad, angry or happy they “talk to” and “feel you”. They hear to all our petty complains and silly stories at home and school, and join us. Grandma to grandchild is a special bond.

Though short, I cherish the best moments of my childhood and now realise the depth of impact it had in me. Above all I loved her nose-jewel stud, mukuthi (the red stones in gold nose stud). She had the aristocracy of maturity, unbounded love, a simple and straight heart.

Grandmas – the invisible evangelists who shape us!

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THE GLOW OF GOODNESS

STRANDOMS: the stray and random thoughts

June 28, 2018

Prof. S. Ramkumar

Life, Lifestyle

THE GLOW OF GOODNESS

Life is run by the never ending strands of Goodness, much of which we are not aware of as we enjoy and sail through them ; some of which we are made aware when it glows occasionally making them visible. These “glows” apparently ensures humanity - the hope and happiness of spreading it further. This is an excerpt from a situation of a surgery focusing on the surgeon and the Glow of Goodness. Ultimately, we all thrive on this energy of Goodness - of some known and many unknown.

As my daughter (who is a human(e) doctor by default and nature, and a film story/script writer by passion) coerced me into the much postponed surgery for me, I was learning the “unknown’s indices” and uncertainties of life as a patient. The best thing she did was to identify the surgeon whom she had great regards for. From the first meeting in which the surgeon unambiguously informed after a check up that I needed to undergo an intervention operation and set the target days between as 7 to 10. I haven’t been able to study me as a patient- but I am considered as a worrisome one in that role.

In a time in which we have many doctors and surgeons (especially in urban areas), and options of corporate hospitals to primary health centers, I was impressed by the professional approach of this surgeon- who was more than willing to tolerate my every doubt (which never ended!). I could feel he could have been none other than a surgeon. Professional, simple, straight, energetic, limited but precise and clear in this thoughts and words and above all confidence in what he was doing.

There was sequence of events- pre and post operation- which included regular caring visits every day, listening and reassuring, holding on to my hand in the Operation theatre just before the procedure and assuring that “just relax sir, we will take care of you” and similar mind relaxing gestures which helped me to face the test of time. With a surgeon like him around, I felt comfortably positioned as somebody who is genuinely cared for.

To cut short memories and to the theme of the topic.

As he said after a week after the operation that I can leave, the Hospital did not agree to take the fees from me. My wife who was with me through all nights was surprised. The management said that the Surgeon has made it clear that he was doing the surgery “free” for me. When he himself is not collecting his genuine fee the Management felt that they should not get anything from me (especially so since my daughter worked there for an year and a half and was liked so much there). I was firm that it wasn’t fair. It wasn’t after all just the bill that needed to be paid with “money” but the care, compassion and concern of many others that needed to be acknowledged by me.

I decided to ask the Surgeon on the day of discharge while he gave instructions to me on post operative care , “Doctor, why don’t you please accept the surgeon’s fee, for all the efforts you have been taking?. Before I could complete, he interrupted “No, sir, the top-up you have give me and family has still more space to be charged”. It didn’t click me. As I tried convincing , he stopped me with a smile “still charge is remaining- hope you understand!”

My daughter reminded me of the incident that happened two years back. Her senior colleague – an efficient and respected lady gynaecologist needed a help. Two injured young stray dogs were hurt and abandoned at the gate of their home and were suffering. Their cries were upsetting not only her but also her young daughters. She in some place felt responsible for it and helpless at the same time. They were finding difficulty in identifying somebody who could save, treat and take these dogs away to a secure place. Her concern was genuine. They were constantly disturbed by the painful cries and grumblings of these poor creatures. After talking to her I understood her concern and worry for the animals (and that made me realize how compassionate and good they were!). I tried all official mechanisms to take the animals away from their home for treatment but it was difficult (which I knew!). Finally, I asked one of my students, a good veterinarian, who is a Faculty now for help and he whole heartedly obliged. With much efforts he through an NGO did took the dogs away and treated them.

I had forgotten this incident.

The Surgeon again repeated “ The two nights of disturbed sleep and worry for the dogs are unexplainable. You went out of the way to help us”. The lady gynecologist was his wife. He continued “what I am doing is my duty of sharing knowledge of medicine and surgery”.

I was too awestruck to respond.

It wasn’t the money, but the Glow of Goodness that comes out of the blue that surprises us and spreads a sweet joy of life.

It’s amazing how we could be carriers of this glow, every moment of our life. And how my student, the lady gynecologist, the surgeon- Dr. P.V.Srinivasan, the sisters of Cluny and my daughter could form a loop of this glow that gave this insight to me!

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The Art of Arrogance

STRANDOMS: the stray and random thoughts

August 16, 2017

Prof. S. Ramkumar

Education

The Art of Arrogance

One of the examples that I use to quote in a lecture of communication is of how a same signal bears different meaning in two countries. For eg. In UK (or elsewhere as applicable) a car or vehicle approaching opposite to your vehicle, if blinks its headlamps, on a highway it would mean courtesy, which may be read as “I am stopping and waiting, you may please go first”. In India the same blinking of headlamps would read “I am advancing (or overtaking), mind you, keep your vehicle to the safe side till I go first”. This is to summarize the attitude of a driver, which is more important than the mechanical skills of driving that defines a “driver” and hence driving.

The “Wheel”, one of the greatest inventions of human history, has developed over civilization timelines to design the diverse vehicles of the present day. Roads are the lifelines of development. However the use of these lifelines depends on “humans”, whose attitude decides how “order” is created in the new social situation ie. “the traffic”.

  1. The smirk of the bicycle rider as he looks back and wanes from a scene, narrowly escaping the scathe of a near-to-hit accident with your vehicle
  2. The awkward posture of the day – phone squeezed between the ear and shoulder, with side-bend neck during the two wheeler drive.
  3. Vehicles that buzz through (overtake) on four sides of your vehicle (not over!)
  4. Parking vehicles on the road, rather than on the sides, and talking to friends.
  5. Parking – be it a two wheeler or four wheeler- with least consideration for the vehicles parked adjacent/near by, making it difficult for another fellow driver to move his/her vehicle form the parked lot.
  6. Honking from behind (or anywhere else) pushing the driver to advance the car or vehicle genuinely waiting for a signal: the horn-shove.
  7. Rushing with that extra speed, desperately to cross the traffic signal, while amber giving way to red.

These are some examples of our daily life, forget the angry looks and enmity faces often we come across on fellow drivers. The story of our traffic on common roads is that of desperateness and quite often, arrogance, as examples listed above.

We have various reasons to justify the type of driving on the roads- but none justifies the danger it can often attribute to the driver, fellow drivers or pedestrians.

Driving on the roads is a social learning, and as like many phenomena depends on the attitude. We have almost all best brands of cars, bikes or bicycles of the world in our roads. Roads too are improving (though one could ideally think of still better). If driving has to be secure, safe and peaceful then attitude needs a change, among anyone who drives.

In places like Europe, US or UK, driving is considered as a pleasure, or a stress-reliever. In addition to the cars and roads it’s the attitude of the drivers that makes driving a pleasure! There is more a mood of competition and unfriendliness in our system of driving compared to the largely cooperative and friendly attitude of drivers in some countries. The relaxed, satisfied, friendly, confident and helpful faces behind the steering is so pleasing compared to the grim, unfriendly, angry, serious, suspicious and threatening faces!

Recently while in IIT Madras, viewing a ”driverless” car project in an innovation experiment, I was amazed to learn that there could be as much as 60 emotions that can flash across a driver’s face depending on the various factors and scenarios one encounters during driving. This was being explored there , to study reactions that could help maneuver the driving in the driverless project. These emotions are attempted to be plotted to decide the reaction of the movement of the car without the driver.

Essentially, it’s the attitude of arrogance that persists and raises rages on roads. Again, driving is not the mechanical art of holding the steering and controlling a vehicle, it’s a big responsible social activity! Respecting fellow drivers, passengers and helping and guiding each other. There is a soft skill art, which is often ignored in driving, on how especially the emotional balance and respect for others can be maintained.

Well this attitude again could be built up as a child in homes and class rooms, but, only if, the child sees the same that is taught in the class is seen on roads. If not (s) he learns the opposite, theory for class rooms and arrogance for practice, which they see around.

The soft skill training in driving especially driving etiquettes and mindset of respecting and considering the fellow drivers has to be an inevitable part of the formal training.

Distracted driving, especially with drivers using cell phones in two-wheeler and other vehicles has to be dealt with caution. Often, this is casually done resulting in loss of innocent lives! An alarming fact that is added new to the list is the death due to the accidents caused by careless crossing of roads (looking at cell phones). Talking and texting are dangerous on roads: talking on the phone distracts us but texting is still more dangerous since the user can’t or doesn’t see the path in front. It’s important that “Cell phone civics” is added in drivers training to ensure the health and life of drivers as well as others.

If only, we could swap the skills of acrobats and arrogance with tolerance, respect and give-way-to-others attitude to fellow drivers, driving will be safe, peaceful and an experience to look forward to. It’s especially so in the present times since people spend more time on roads , travelling and there is an evolving social system called “traffic jams”.

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